Hi

I know that I have not been on here in an entire year. But at the same time I have been watching these videos on YouTube about how women should, to put it simply, bow down to their man. How we as women should change first and please them first. 

My first thought was this: if we change ourselves first and are always the ones who go after the men first then eventually they will stop trying. They will not even make an effort to change if we are always doing it. 

If a man wants something about his home to change then he should look at the things himself does within said household and how he treats his wife. Because let me tell you, most of the time, it is usually the men who are causing the distress.

They set poor examples for the children usually and they never and I mean never help out with the household chores  or help take care of the children.

Now there are some good men and some very shitty women but this post is about every single piece of media that is trying to brainfeed you the idea that you mean nothing without your man. That you need to do everything for him because that is all you are ever put on this earth for.  

IT IS NOT TRUE.

DO NOT BELIEVE ANY OF IT

ridiculous shit

Ok, buying all the toilet paper won't save you from the virus. Keeping your hands washed, however, will!  All of you buying up all the baby wipes just so babies can't have any available to wipe their asses. You all are just selfish bunch of pricks. I mean really. LEAVE SOME FOR THE REST OF US YOU SELFISH BASTARDS!!!!

Times like this...

It is at times like this where I think my kids want to sabotage me. My oldest and my husband are both asleep right now. My youngest was asleep until he raised enough hell that after two bottles, I just said "fuck it" and got up with him. Now after sitting here with him playing in the playpen for an hour, he is laying over like he's trying to go back to sleep. I swear all this has to do with the full moon and the fact that they have glaucoma. (My husband, oldest and youngest son all have it) my only major problem with this is that I cannot keep switching up my own sleep schedule because it can lead to another major seizure. (I have epilepsy) 
I just wish they would get it together. I'm trying not to be my parents and make them get up at certain times and make them go to bed at certain times every single night. I hated it so much and my husband says he hated it as well so we try not to do the same to our kids but I am starting to swear that maybe they do need it. I can't handle another major seizure that will put me out of driving for about a month. Seeing as how I am the only licensed driver in my household. We cannot afford to stay at home like that.

Fuck my life......

Moms.....

I know I have felt this way but has anyone ever felt like they just want to give up? There is just so much work and stress into creating and melding little humans, not to mention just being a woman nowadays. We as women have always been looked down upon for a very very long time and it's ridiculous. Without us, there would be no men in the world.without us, who would be there to be the supporter and make the egos of men that much bigger?
Women are seen as weak but there are different kinds of being strong. It isn't always pure muscle. After all, if child birth was so easy then men would have that ability not women. Let's all try to look past the stereotypes and just get along!

Why?

Why...just why!!!!!!
Men always have this crazy notion that they are above housecleaning and that it's the "women's job". I call this complete bullshit.
Yes, I said it. Complete and total bullshit. If you make a mess and you are old enough and capable enough then your ass needs to be picking it up and cleaning it up. Men, you wonder why women want to be gay and lesbians? Well, it's probably because you drove us to that by your caveman ways. Think about it!

Can I?

I just want to be seriously clear when I say that I have had enough! Every day, day in and day out....no rest. No fucks given. Not a single care in this entire home.
Has anyone else felt this way? Have you felt like you have been stressed for no reason?
Join me in saying it loud and proud:
I DO NOT GIVE A SINGLE FUCK ANYMORE!!!!!!!
*deep breath*
Ok, now I feel better

YouTube Moms

I know that in my generation that we can have examples of being a mom on youtube and other social media platforms. But there is one thing to consider is that, we only get to see their video side. The smile they pose for the camera,usually. We don't see the all nighters due to ill babies or the getting into discipline mode. And alot of the tips they provide are great BUT you have to adapt the tips to fit your family.
What works for their children may or may not work for mine (or yours) and that's ok. Not every child is the same. Now if only we can convince the government and the school systems of this, we would be in business!