Oh...hi

I know I haven't made a blog post in awhile. I will get better at this I swear! But I just want to comment on something related to recent events in Florida.

Has anyone yet to notice that this younger generation just has no appreciation for life at all. They go around robbing, shooting,etc. Common sense apparently has died with my generation. Stop taking guns away from children and instead teach them what it means if you shoot someone or something. Teach them that there are other nonlethal ways to get their frustrations out. And that there is a difference in video games and in life.
You can say "that's a bunch of bullshit" but actually, it's not! My husband and I taught my son what it means to shoot something and explained to him that it's the same when shooting someone and that he should never do so unless he is in danger. That sweet boy has yet to try to pick up his daddy's gun. It's all in how you teach them.

Haha

You know your a boy mom when you have to edit out a part of the video where they start hitting and whining at each other...

Anyway,
I saw a Facebook post earlier about a mom trying to make excuses for not spanking her kids. Look, if your kids are screaming in the middle if the store....you pop that ass! Regardless if they are "empathetic " and btw your son was probably screaming because he was making fun of his sister and is probably the reason she lost her balloon to begin with. And no, the woman in the other line had no right to say  what she did but you should have said something to her and not rant about her on Facebook!!!!

I know that I am bad about paying attention to my phone or just handing my phone to my son just to shut him up about some games or what not but I definitely do not tolerate the screaming in the store. That's another thing...everyone hides behind a damn computer or phone and want to pretend to be bad but in reality they aren't. I will say this though...

TO ALL STRUGGLING MOMS: it is going to be okay. Let your children be children.dint force them to grow up too fast and for gods sake if they throw a fit...SPANK THEIR ASS

Get out of the stone age!

Those husbands who think that the word wife simply means Wash Iron Fuck Etc seriously needs to get the hell out of the stone age and get with the modern times.most housewives like me do not want to wait on our men and children twenty four hours a day.we have hobbies that we also enjoy as well.our lives do not revolve around waiting on you hand and foot.
I realize that some might just be offended by this post but I really don't care.this is my blog and my ranting post so just get over it.
Yes, women can have kids and we absolutely love them to death.i would not take mine for granted but we all have those moments where we are over our limits.take yesterday for instance....it was my birthday but what was I doing? Cleaning up the mess that my husband made while throwing a temper tantrum over a stupid video game.yeah.....happy freaking birthday to me....whoo.....not.

Being a mom/being a disabled mom

Motherhood is hard work.i am not going to lie to you on that.but when you have a disability that makes it unsafe to pick up your child.try having a disability that makes you forget more easily then a elderly person with dementia or spacing out in the middle of your child talking to you about something that excites them.or even worse...actually having a seizure in front of your child.Being a mother is not easy but being a mother that has epilepsy or some other life changing disability just makes motherhood a thousand times worse.
I would not change anything about my kids or about being their mother .I just have to work at it much harder then my friends or anyone I am related to.

Choices

If you had a choice in taking care of your husband first and then your kids....which would you do?

I do not know about you but for me it depends on the situation.mosy of the times your husband can fix his own plate of food and he can do his own things especially if you are sick or have children who need special care. I hate to say it because if you get in the habit of taking care of the husband first then he is going to expect it.then if you get sick,if the kids get sick then he will continue to expect himself to be put first.all I can say is for him to sucks it up. My kids come first and that's the bottom line.....in my house anyway.

Admitting....

Ok, I admit it....I let myself go.i am also not the best house keeper either.i am also lazy at times.but I love my kids.i would do anything for them.even if I do feed them fast food and things.we all do it.we all have done it at least once.so admit it....how many times you have done something that you said you weren't going to do....let me know in the comments.

Gay children....

Ok,this is an issue that I've seen and heard and read about on the internet.if your child comes up to you and tells you that they might be gay.......what would your first reaction be?

If you said that you would disown that child then you are a shitty parent.in that moment your child really needs you because they are at their most scared,co,fused and vulnerable moment and you just verbally slapped them in the face by disowning them right then.they are your children.they are not something you buy and then return when something malfunctions.it doesn't work that way.if you become a parent then you are that child's mother or father forever.you do not get to decide when to love your child.

Now...if your answer was that you would support them the yay! A parent should help their children throughout their life even if they came to you in their adult years and asked you this question.

Children will always be our children even when they grow up and have children of their own.you cannot just turn off that kind of love.it just isn't possible.