Children and curse words

I do not understand why people get so uptight when they hear cussing.it's even worse when they happen to hear children say it. Then they start criticizing the parents for it.why be so offended by it when most adults have cussed at least once in their lifetime. There are studies that show people who cuss have high intelligence and more creativity then those who do not.
Granted,children shouldn't cuss around grandparents or whatever but other than that i dont see anything wrong with it.
Do I let my child cuss? Certainly but he mainly uses those words at home, and not around his great grandparents.I never taught those words to him but he picked up on it from my husband and myself. I don't believe in sheltering my child from every single thing in the world. He is bluntly honest, has never lied and he is extremely smart. (he knows how to figure out a new cell phone better and faster than his grandmother,and sometimes even myself)
Yes i am bragging because I was told when he was barely one years old that he was going to be slow, all because he was picky about what toys he played with,even at that age. He's being himself and I refuse to change that about him. Its why I let him cuss too. Don't like it? Then don't come around my family

Dont know about you....

Ok, i don't know about you all but i ansolutely hate when my husband sits around all day and wants to complain that i do not do anything. Granted that part of being a wife and mom is keeping the home clean but what does it hurt to puck up after yourself?
I mean our husbands are grown men who claim to hate a dirty house yet do not lift even a finger to help clean the house at all. What does it hurt to wash the pan,and dishes you were just using or throw away your cans and not leave four in one room and two in another and one in another OR how about putting your dirty clothes in either the washing machine or in the mesh clothes bag that you can clearly see hanging off of the hallway closet door handle...
Why do we mothers and wives have to sound like raving lunatics before anyone even looks in our general direction.

Title change...etc

You may have noticed that i have changed the title to this blog.why did i? Well, i just wanted to.
Anyways, have anyone noticed that when you become a mom, everyone suddenly puts a label on you. There is suddenly this big list of things that you cannot do or say or even wear without having someone criticizing. Yet when men become fathers, they don't really get the restricting labels that we get. Its unfair but at the same time,its how society really sees us.
Models can pose nude but when a woman pops out a breast to feed a baby like our bodies are naturally meant to do then the mother gets in trouble but the model gets praise. Or like how its okay to wear tight, short clothes as a single, motherless woman but as soon as she gets married and starts popping out kids then suddenly she is called all kinds of names unless she gives in to the restrictions.
Its sad that our society is turning against women being mothers and housewives or even stay at home moms in this day and time.

People....

I swear I get so tired of people taking advantage of those of us who dont have much. Especially certain people *cough cough* who have a house that they own, have a job, has at least four vehicles whereas my family does not have a job, having to live in the damn housing authority and is having to pay that certain person gas money anytime we have to go to the fucking store for something!
They caused me to lose my vehicle,they turned my vehicle into a damn junk heap and still expect me not my husband to get mad when we have to sell something we own to buy something just to buy things like diapers....it's fucking disgusting how much they don't want me to get ahead in life.
Its absolutely fucking disgusting
(side note: mickie james is not "hardcore country". Showing off your breasts and abs and ass in a music video while wearing daisy dukes and a tied up plaid shirt and cowboy boots do not make you "hardcore")

My life

I have to admit that I have always had issues with my body and my mind. Whether I'm too shy or what I wished I looked like.you know,normal worries. But then I turned nineteen and got set up with this great guy, who has been my husband for five years so far, and next thing I know I am pregnant with my first child, who is turning five this year 😦,but going through those changes and feeling his kicks and then giving birth to him has really opened my mind and has stomped on those issues I had.
Even more so with all the healthy issues that we later found out about his eyes. (born with cataracts,ended up having glaucoma which we're still dealing with now) but despite all of that, he has remained just so unbelievably happy and is the sweetest most living child on this planet. Seeing him face all this and watch him never change demeanor has really taught me major lessons and helped to further stomp down my own issues. Also seeing him love me unconditionally even though I'm overweight,etc makes me love him that much more.it makes me realize that that stuff doesn't matter at all.
Then I developed epilepsy and had to go through having him witness several of my seizures reevaluated my thinking as well. Ever since that first seizure,if I am laying down for any reason or if I complain of not feeling well,he immediately will come lay beside me or he will constantly come ask if I am okay. He'll love on me, give me kisses and endless hugs, thinking in his mind that it'll make me feel better and in many ways it actually does. I mean I'm in my midtwenties and here is a five year old little boy who does everything he can to male me feel better.how can you not love him for that?
So now I have come upon finding myself pregnant yet again.mind you that I still have epilepsy so this pregnancy is really stressing me out.I have fears that are there now that weren't before during my first pregnancy.but my son, and my husband, still remain the sweet ones they are. My son even tried ,on purpose, not to lay on my stomach and such. He says he wants a little brother,😄 at this point I don't care what gender the baby is but that it comes out perfectly healthy and doesn't have any health problems.
Becoming a mother really changes you.

Get over it

This country really needs a wake up call. All this political correct carp is bullshit.  You all cannot face the fact that trump speaks his mind while you get the lies and run around from everyone else. My homestate elected trump as the republican candidate in the primaries and I'm glad. Now he just needs to become the president.

This country needs a fix and trump is the man to do it. We do not need any other "first"  presidents. And this country sure does not need a first female president. I'm not saying that a woman cannot do the job but the woman that's running for president absolutely will not do the job. She needs to be in jail.as does Sharpton but that's just my opinion.

I saw on Facebook where someone actually called these times "modern slavery days " whoever that person is must be hooked on crack or something.it's not any kind of slavery days because if it were, white people wouldn't be getting such carp for what we do. You all would know your place. ....just saying!

Listen here.....

I think that its about time that I talk about this whole gun control issue. I want a president who supports guns. If the president does not support guns then they know they have the ability to control you even more so because they wild be the ones with the guns pointing at you. And we all know that most cops are assholes, not all but some, and if you're caught at their mercy especially as a woman it could mean bad business for you. I know I feel safer knowing that I know how to use a gun and have access to it anytime. Especially when it comes to the days where my husband isn't home but will leave me one of his guns. I don't understand those that are afraid of guns. I grew up around guns and I'm still alive. Never had a misfire by one sitting near me. Btw, most guns won't actually shoot by just laying on a table unless its a crappy cheap gun or if it gets under some heat but usually a person has to be holding that gun and actually pull the trigger for it to happen. Also its time to stop blaming those people who who have went through the legal hurdles to be able to buy and carry a gun. Because what if you get into a situation and unknown to you that that the very person you were criticizing could be the very person that stands between you and death.
When a person gets into trouble for drinking and driving, the car nor the alcohol gets the blame but the PERSON does. When someone eats too much, the food nor the fork\spoon gets the blame, the PERSON does. And when a person gets involved in an accident by either another vehicle or an animal, that person or the other person involved gets the blame, not the cars nor the animals. Also when we misspell words, the electronic or pen or pencil doesn't get the blame the person holding it blames themselves....... get the picture yet? Just because someone goes crazy and starts shooting people doesn't mean that its the people who legally carry nor is it the guns' fault. Its the fault of the person pulling the trigger. Its what they do that matters. Guns are just metal tools that we use. They can't sit there and say "I think I'm going to go sneak up on some security guard in a gated community and try to kill him" nor do they say "I'm going to go shoot up a school today" guns are just objects.