Polar opposites

Hello y'all,
Today I wonder how my husband I have stayed married as long as we have. We are two total opposites and rarely agrees on anything. He loves the beach, living somewhere where you can always have something to do, he rarely will step outside of our house without some kind of shoes on, he keeps all the curtains drawn like he's afraid of someone seeing him at home, he even rarely sits on our porch, he'd rather stay inside like a hermit playing video games or watching movies.
Whereas myself, I love the outdoors, hate the beach, love living in the woods or small towns, love being outside barefoot,likes having curtains open where I can see the sunlight, even like having the windows open on a cool day, love sitting on the porch all day long either playing with my son or reading or knitting.
I'm born and raised in good ole' Alabama but he's from Florida. (You can say Florida is southern all you want but all that state is, is full of Yankees that live near a beach) I want my son to be raised the southern way but he doesn't.
He's one of those that think southerners are slow and stupid, so yeah we have our problems. But I do love him and without him I wouldn't have the sweet little boy that's running around playing right now :-)
A little education in good ole' southern ways is in order,I guess haha!
Hope y'all have a good day and God bless